Making Family Fun Happen

This week has not gone quite as planned. My husband’s birthday was Friday, so he took the whole week off to have fun with the family.

Poulsbo Washington waterfront

Things started off well.

To kick off his birthday week, I took the kids to my parents’ to get them (and me) out of his hair for two nights. (I know, I’m pretty rad.)

On Saturday (after a non-existent night of sleep, thanks to the boy), my husband joined me, my dad, my brother, and Z at the Hood Canal in Belfair to do some clam digging. Nothing beats digging in the mud for dinner.

Making fun happen digging for clams

We have never had an easier time finding our limit in clams (40 per person). We used a little rake tool and only had to scratch the surface of the mud, clams were everywhere. So Awesome.

Making fun happen holding a clam

Turns out the Little Miss likes to eat them too-A lot!

Making fun happen eating clams

I was surprised she tried them at all. I think it has something to do with the fact that she helped dig them up. So far, it was a great start to his vacation. And to top it off, after eating delicious, fresh clams, he got to go back home, kid (and wife) free.

Then Monday came along. I got sick. I was laid out for two days. Daddy got to take care of the kiddos. Have I mentioned we have a threenager and an almost two year old in the midst of the Terrible Twos? He’s a great dad, so he was up to the task.

However, by the end of the second day, he started forgetting things. He forgot his PIN number for his debit card. I mean, completely blanked it out while pumping gas. Then he forgot his phone. There were a few more things on the list-just enough so he started thinking he was going crazy. I’ve been telling him about “mommy brain” for years, I think he finally believes me.

Wednesday and Thursday were more or less “relax” days. The kiddos were acting a little crazy for some reason. The weather wasn’t great, so we were stuck inside. I’m sure it has something to do with the “crazy.” (In case you’re keeping track, that’s four days completely wiped out from his time off.)

Finally, on Friday (his birthday, and his last official day of vacation), we were able to do some of the fun family activities we had planned for the week.

We went to the Kids Discovery Museum on Bainbridge Island. The kids had a blast! The highlight (for me, anyway), was the gigantic Lite Brite.

Making fun happen Lite Brite boyMaking fun happen Lite Brite girlMan, it was cool! The kids liked it too, but I could have hung out there the whole day. Another big hit was the rock wall. Miss Z has, quite possibly, found a new love.

Making fun happen climbing a rock wall smilingMaking fun happen rock wall concentration

Saturday, we went to the zoo.

Making fun happen close encounter with a peacock

It was a really great time chasing after kids and dragging them to see animals. All they wanted to do was play at the playground there. Next time, we’ll go to the park down the street.

Making fun happen playing on a spider webMaking fun happen posing with Lemurs

In the last half hour we were there, we saw the walruses. They were huge show-offs, so they were a big hit with the girl. She’ll be talking about them for days.

The rest of the weekend, we just hung out and relaxed.

We had big expectations for the week, fun activities, day trips, etc… Instead of being disappointed, we were able to roll with the punches and make the best of it. We still had plenty of highlights and made some fun memories.

I suppose it’s part of our job description as parents to be flexible and adapt to our situation. And next time, we won’t put as much pressure on ourselves to make every single day fun. Live and learn.

What have you been up to this week? Have you made exciting plans that didn’t turn out how you hoped? How did you handle it?

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16 Comments

  • Reply Megan@SensitiveMommy

    I love this! It is so important to make time to be together as a family.

    March 30, 2015 at 7:23 am
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      Thanks! It is! We got to have some fun!

      March 30, 2015 at 7:25 am
  • Reply Natasha

    Nice job planning all this fun momma! I need one of those gigantic lite brights! Awesome!

    March 30, 2015 at 11:37 am
  • Reply Lauren

    I do that all the time.. whenever I have a few days off I plan all this stuff with the kids and it rarely works out how I planned! But it looks like you guys had a blast anyway, and I would love to go clam digging!! I think that is SO COOL!

    March 30, 2015 at 3:00 pm
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      Clam digging is one of my favorites, but I really can’t wait until crabbing season. That is the best!

      March 30, 2015 at 8:24 pm
  • Reply Melissa

    Looks like fun! I would love to play with a gigantic Lite Brite. When my daughter and husband have vacation, I like to go to some cool places but also just have some days to relax also.

    March 30, 2015 at 3:31 pm
  • Reply Rachael Boley

    The pictures are all so cute! That lite brite thing does look amazing…here we come childhood memories haha! Also it’s amazing how big your babies are getting!! Just in the time I’ve known you and seen pictures they’re growing so much!! Bummer your week didn’t go exactly as planned, but what week as a parent ever does!? Haha, sounds like you made the most of it together and that’s what counts!

    March 30, 2015 at 7:03 pm
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      Thank you! So true-it made me miss my lite brite-ha! They are growing really fast! Yours too! So crazy how big they are!

      March 30, 2015 at 7:12 pm
  • Reply MrsMuffinTop ™ (@TheMrsMuffinTop)

    So….will you adopt me? 🙂

    I think they also have the light-brite wall at the kids museum in Manhattan (we were there years ago).

    The family that plays together stays together 🙂 Looks like you guys are having fun!

    March 30, 2015 at 7:47 pm
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      Haha!! So true-we had a good time!

      March 30, 2015 at 8:27 pm
  • Reply Jenny

    You filled up the week pretty well for being sick for two days! I am impressed! I totally want to play with that lite bright. I always wanted one… but never had one. 🙂

    March 31, 2015 at 2:37 am
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      It was so much fun-I want to go back just for that!

      March 31, 2015 at 4:36 am
  • Reply Naomi

    Wow, I think you did pretty great to get out as much as you did! I take everything one day at a time and rarely have anything exciting planned. We do go places, just not at a planned time or a planned day.

    March 31, 2015 at 6:51 am
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      I think I’m going to start doing what you do. It sounds like a more relaxing vacation!!

      March 31, 2015 at 8:14 am
  • Reply CourtneyLynne

    looks like y’all had a great weekend together!!! Happy Birthday to your hubby!!!!!

    April 1, 2015 at 9:59 am
    • Reply mamabyfire@gmail.com

      Thank you!! We did!

      April 1, 2015 at 10:01 am

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